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How to Calm a Dog at Night: Causes, a Bedtime Routine and a 2 a.m. Plan

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To calm a dog at night, meet its needs before bed and keep evenings predictable. A behaviorist in AAHA's Trends magazine recommends active play earlier in the day and a chew or snuffle mat in the evening. Follow this with a last potty trip and a dim, quiet sleeping spot.


If your dog wakes, try to understand what it needs. Restlessness with retching and a swollen belly can signal bloat, which AAHA identifies as an emergency.


Key points

  • Schedule the day's vigorous exercise early. AAHA advises avoiding vigorous play for at least an hour before a meal and two hours after it to lower the risk of bloat.

  • A puppy can comfortably hold its bladder for about its age in months plus one hour, says the American Kennel Club. Plan the last trip outside for right before bed.

  • Never give your dog your own sleeping pills or pain relievers. If your dog has swallowed any, call your vet or the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center at (888) 426-4435 (a fee may apply).

  • An older dog that paces at night and sleeps more during the day needs a vet check for pain and cognitive dysfunction. Cornell says this condition can begin around 9 years of age.



Why is my dog restless at night?

Most restless nights come from one of five things: a need your dog cannot meet alone (a full bladder or unused energy), age, fear, pain, or illness. Match what you see with the table below, then read the section that fits your dog.


A mixed maltese dog awake at night indoors under dim light


Start with what your dog is doing, since its behavior can offer clues to the cause.


What you see at night What it can point to First step
A puppy whines or wakes you to go out A small bladder: a puppy can hold it for about its age in months plus one hour, per the AKC
A last potty trip right before bed, and a short trip out when it wakes
An adult dog asks out more often, drinks more, or leaks urine while asleep Drinking and urinating more, which has medical causes such as diabetes and kidney disease (Cornell) Book a vet visit, and keep water available until then
Wide awake and wants to play after a quiet day Leftover energy: dogs slept more after a busy day in a 16-dog EEG study
A chew or a snuffle mat tonight, and active play earlier tomorrow
Panting, pacing or hiding during storms, fireworks or street noise Fear of noises (VCA) A haven room away from windows, white noise and a calm owner
Pacing, circling, shifting position again and again, panting when not hot Pain (AAHA) A firm bed on the floor tonight and a vet visit soon
An older dog wanders at night, sleeps more by day or seems lost Cognitive dysfunction (Cornell), or pain A vet check; see the senior section below
A cough that comes only at night A medical problem: a cough from heart disease gets worse lying down (VCA) Book a vet visit
Restless and drooling, retching with little or nothing coming up, swollen belly Bloat, an emergency (AAHA) Seek emergency care now


Needs your dog cannot meet alone

A full bladder is the most straightforward reason. The AKC puts a puppy's limit at its age in months plus one hour between breaks. That means about 4 hours at 3 months, though puppies can usually wait a bit longer once asleep.


Unused energy is another common reason. In the 2018 EEG study of 16 family dogs, dogs slept more after a day of training or competition than after an ordinary day. They also entered deep sleep sooner. The group was small, so treat the findings as a clue that busy days may help, rather than a rule.


Is it normal for a puppy to wake up at night?

Yes. Puppies often need to go outside during the night, says Humane World for Animals. It suggests keeping your puppy's crate in your bedroom or a nearby hallway at first so you can hear it whine.


Fear and anxiety at night

A frightened dog may pant, pace, and try to hide, according to VCA's description of dogs that fear noises such as thunder.


Sleep disrupted by nighttime noise may also be linked to daytime behavior. A 2022 survey of 1,330 people with dogs was described in AAHA's Trends magazine. Dogs jolted awake by footsteps or passing cars had significantly worse problem behavior scores than dogs that slept through the same sounds. If your dog also seems tense during the day, review these triggers and warning signs of stress.


Can pain keep a dog awake at night?

Yes. AAHA says pets in pain may become restless and anxious as they try to get comfortable, pacing, circling, or moving from spot to spot. Panting when your dog is neither hot nor recovering from exercise can also point to pain.


In older dogs, VCA lists nighttime restlessness and difficulty getting comfortable among the signs of pain. VCA also notes that a dog that circles and paws at its bed for a long time before lying down may have arthritis.


Senior dogs and cognitive dysfunction

Cognitive dysfunction syndrome can begin around 9 years of age, according to Cornell. Dogs with this condition often sleep during the day, then become restless and pace at night, VCA's behaviorists note. Pain can cause similar behavior. The senior section below explains what can help.


Medical problems that wake dogs

A dog that drinks more also pees more, so it may ask to go out at night, have accidents, or leak urine while asleep. Cornell lists possible causes, including urinary tract infection, diabetes, kidney disease, Cushing's disease, and liver disease.


A cough that occurs only at night needs the same attention as one that lasts all day, VCA says. For more on each cause, read these reasons a dog won't sleep at night.



How to calm a dog at night: an evening routine to start tonight

Calm nights start in the afternoon. Give your dog a chance to use its energy early, wind down after dinner, and follow the same short steps each night.


A behaviorist quoted in AAHA's Trends magazine suggests walks and active play earlier in the day, followed by quieter activities such as chews and snuffle mats in the evening. This helps your dog learn that evenings are for settling down. A consistent wind-down routine can make a big difference before bed, he says.


Timing matters as much as effort. Half an hour of ball throwing just before bed can get a dog excited again instead of tiring it out, he warns.


Busy days can help dogs sleep better at night. In a 2018 EEG study of 16 family dogs, dogs slept more and reached deep sleep sooner after activities that engaged both body and mind. These included training or a competition. It was a small study.


Evening timeline: from late afternoon to lights out

Adjust the times to fit your household; the order of the steps is what counts.


When What to do Why it helps
Late afternoon The day's longest walk and active play Active play belongs earlier in the day, and busy days led to more and deeper sleep in the 16-dog study
At least 1 hour before dinner Finish hard exercise AAHA advises no vigorous exercise for at least an hour before a meal, to lower the risk of bloat
Dinner and the 2 hours after it Calm activities only: a chew, a snuffle mat or a puzzle toy AAHA advises no hard play for at least 2 hours after a meal, and low-key activities help your dog link the evening with settling
The last hour Dim lights and a quiet house Bright white light is the worst light for sleep, the behaviorist says
Right before bed A last potty trip The AKC advises one last potty break before bed, and puppies can usually wait longer once asleep
Lights out The same bed, the same place and the same short goodnight A predictable wind-down routine helps, the behaviorist says


If you're not sure how much sleep is normal for your dog's age, see how many hours dogs sleep.



How to set up a sleep space where your dog can settle

Give your dog a bed with room to stretch out, and place it in the same dim, quiet spot every night. Keep it near you if your dog prefers, and make sure the space is not too warm. Use this checklist to review your setup.


  • A bed big enough to stretch out. A rectangular bed lets your dog stretch out fully, while a round doughnut bed often does not, a behaviorist told AAHA's Trends magazine.
  • Firm support for older joints. For a dog with arthritis, climbing onto your bed takes real effort, and a soft mattress offers aging joints too little support, VCA notes. A firm bed on the floor is easier to access.
  • The same spot every night. In the 16-dog EEG study, dogs sleeping away from home were less likely to reach REM sleep. These locations included a camp, a friend's house, or the lab.
  • Close to you, if your dog prefers. When given a choice, about 87% of puppies and 63% of adult dogs choose a spot near people over sleeping alone, the behaviorist says.
  • A crate near your bed for a new puppy. Humane World for Animals suggests placing the crate in your bedroom or a nearby hallway at first. Add a soft blanket or bed inside, and never use the crate as punishment.
  • Quiet. Nighttime noise matters, as the 2022 survey above suggests. White noise or a fan can muffle outside sounds, a tactic VCA's behaviorists suggest for dogs that fear noises.
  • Dim light. Avoid bright white bulbs near the bed, which the behaviorist calls the worst light for sleep. For an older dog losing its sight, a little extra light or a scent cue can help it find its way, says VCA.
  • Not too warm. Some dogs get too hot in bed and prefer a cool floor, VCA notes. Let your dog choose between its bed and a cooler spot.


Golden retriever curled up and resting on a gray sofa with cushions

A familiar, quiet resting spot near the family suits most dogs.


Does calming music help a dog sleep?

It may help some dogs rest, though the studies took place in animal shelters, veterinary hospitals, and police-dog facilities. That means they tell us little about bedtime at home. A 2020 University of Sydney review found that classical music was linked to more time sitting, lying down, resting, and sleeping, with less barking and standing.


  • Audiobooks: In one study included in the review, an audiobook led to calmer behavior than classical music or music made for dogs.
  • Music made for dogs: The review found no added benefit over classical music.
  • The same playlist every night: Dogs can get used to music, so its effects may fade. In one study, dogs stopped responding after hearing the same playlist for 7 days. The review suggests adding variety and changing the track order.


If you try music, vary what you play and watch whether your dog settles faster. White noise or a fan, as mentioned above, is another way to muffle nighttime sounds.


Should my dog sleep in my bed?

That is your choice, with one clear exception: VCA advises keeping a dog off the bed if it aggressively guards the bed or a family member. For an older dog with stiff joints, a firm bed on the floor beside yours offers closeness without the climb.



What to do when your dog wakes you at 2 a.m.

First, identify what your dog needs, address it quietly, and return to bed. Use the table below to find the next step for tonight and any follow-up needed.


If your dog is Do this now Then
Whining or barking in its crate If whining has never earned your dog a release, wait a few minutes. If it goes on, say your potty phrase, go to the usual spot and come straight back in with no play, as Humane World for Animals advises. Back to the crate, and the same routine tomorrow
Asking to go out, and this is new Take your dog to its usual spot and come straight back in If your dog is also drinking more, book a vet visit and keep water available, as Cornell advises
Panting, pacing or hiding during a storm, fireworks or a loud noise Move to an interior room away from windows, run white noise or a fan, close the blinds and stay calm, per VCA
If the fear is strong or keeps coming back, talk to your vet
An older dog that wanders, stares or seems lost Turn on a low light and offer a bathroom trip, as VCA suggests for older dogs, then guide your dog back to bed Film it, since VCA says a video helps the vet, and book a visit
Unable to get comfortable, circling, or panting when not hot Offer a firm bed on the floor, and give no human pain reliever Call your vet in the morning, since AAHA lists this kind of restlessness as a pain sign
Drooling, retching with little or nothing coming up, swollen belly, or struggling to breathe Go to the emergency vet now; these can be signs of bloat (AAHA) See the urgency table below


Should I ignore my dog crying at night?

Only in one case: a crate-trained dog that has never been let out in response to whining. For that dog, Humane World for Animals suggests waiting a few minutes, then offering a short potty trip if the whining continues. Check on a puppy, an older dog, or a frightened dog. Puppies often need to go outside at night, while dogs experiencing fear or confusion need your help.

 

If your dog barks in its crate night after night, read about barking in the crate at night.


Is it OK to comfort a scared dog at night?

Yes. Owners were once told to ignore a dog's fear, but Fear Free Happy Homes recommends offering support instead. Sit beside your dog, rest a hand on its shoulder, or move it away from whatever scares it. Comfort helps in the moment, but it will not teach your dog to overcome the fear.

 

Never punish a frightened dog, VCA's behaviorists warn. For intense fears, your vet may prescribe medication or refer you to a behaviorist.


What can I give my dog to sleep through the night?

Nothing from your own medicine cabinet. Human sleep aids such as zolpidem and benzodiazepines can poison dogs, the Merck Veterinary Manual. Some dogs become agitated instead of sleepy.

 

Some human melatonin products also contain xylitol, which is toxic to dogs, according to VCA. Human pain relievers such as ibuprofen and naproxen can cause severe stomach ulcers and kidney failure in dogs, says the Pet Poison Helpline.


If your vet thinks your dog needs help sleeping, they may recommend a prescription medicine or melatonin. Vets use melatonin off-label in dogs, meaning the FDA has not approved that use. Your vet chooses the product and the amount.

 

If your dog swallowed human pills or a product containing xylitol, call your vet or the ASPCA Animal Poison Control Center at (888) 426-4435 immediately. The line is open around the clock, and a fee may apply.



When is a restless dog at night an emergency?

Go to an emergency vet now if restlessness comes with retching that brings up little or nothing, a swollen belly, trouble breathing, or collapse. A seizure that lasts more than five minutes also needs emergency care. Other changes in your dog's nighttime behavior call for a phone call or a scheduled visit.

 

Find the row that best matches what you see.

 

What you see How urgent What to do
Restless, pacing, drooling, retching with little or nothing coming up, swollen belly, pale gums Emergency now Go to the nearest emergency vet: bloat can turn critical within moments, AAHA warns
Labored breathing, bluish gums or collapse, above all in a flat-faced dog Emergency now Go to your vet or the nearest emergency hospital at once, as Cornell advises
A seizure that lasts more than five minutes Emergency now Go to a veterinary clinic at once, and keep your hands away from the mouth (Cornell)
Swallowed human sleeping pills, pain relievers or a product with xylitol Emergency now Call your vet or ASPCA Animal Poison Control at (888) 426-4435
Restless, panting, pacing or trembling after a new medicine or supplement Call your vet now These can be signs of serotonin syndrome, which VCA says can begin within one to two hours of a serotonin-acting drug
Panting when not hot, pacing, circling, trouble lying down or getting up Book a visit soon These can be signs of pain, per AAHA
Asking out more, drinking more, accidents or leaks while asleep Book a visit soon Keep water available until the exam, as Cornell's canine health center advises
A cough only at night, or violent movements in sleep Book a visit Film it: VCA says a video helps the vet reach a diagnosis
An older dog that paces or vocalizes at night, or is awake at night and asleep by day Book a visit Ask about pain and cognitive dysfunction, as AAHA's Trends magazine advises


What should I tell the vet?

Bring a video of your dog's nighttime behavior and a short log. Note when your dog wakes, what it does, how much it drinks, and how often it goes outside. For seizures, Cornell advises timing each one and keeping a log.

 

If pacing is the main sign, see what pacing at night can mean.


 

How to help a senior dog who is awake at night

Book a vet check first: pain and cognitive dysfunction can both keep older dogs awake, but they need different care. Then make daytime more engaging and nighttime more comfortable.

 

Cognitive dysfunction syndrome can begin around 9 years of age, according to Cornell. Signs include wandering at night, sleeping more during the day, pacing, new signs of anxiety, and getting stuck in corners. Before diagnosing it, your vet rules out pain, arthritis, seizure disorders, other illnesses, and loss of sight or hearing.


VCA's behaviorists recommend yearly screening for cognitive dysfunction from 7 years of age, so mention nighttime waking at your dog's next checkup. Pain can cause similar signs. VCA lists nighttime restlessness as a sign of pain in older dogs, along with difficulty getting up and reluctance to use stairs.


Fuller days

Cornell suggests daily play, a variety of toys or interactive toys, and regular exercise for dogs with cognitive dysfunction.

 

Physical activity and brain aging appear to be linked. In the Dog Aging Project survey of 15,019 dogs, the odds of cognitive dysfunction rose 52% with each additional year of age. Inactive dogs had 6.47 times the odds of very active dogs. The survey captured a single point in time, so it cannot show that exercise prevents decline.


Easier nights: a checklist for older dogs

  • Offer more frequent bathroom trips, including one right before bed. VCA notes that older dogs may need more frequent access to a bathroom spot.

  • Light the way: Extra lighting or scent cues around the home can help a dog that is losing its sight find its way.

  • Add a ramp or steps if your dog sleeps on a sofa or your bed.

  • Keep the bed firm and on the floor, since a soft mattress offers aging joints too little support, according to VCA.

  • Keep notes on when your dog wakes, what it does, and how often it goes outside.


Medicines and diets your vet may suggest

Your vet may recommend a medicine such as selegiline, which Cornell notes is approved for cognitive dysfunction in North America. They may also suggest a veterinary diet designed for the condition. Only your vet can decide whether either option suits your dog, so bring your notes to the visit.

 

For the rest of your older dog's day, see daily care for an older dog.


 

Adding a supplement to your dog's bedtime routine

A supplement is the last step, not the first. Address your dog's needs, follow the evening timeline, and set up a comfortable sleep space before adding anything. Have your vet check any new nighttime waking, too.

 

If you want another cue in your wind-down routine, HolistaPet offers Sleep Aid for Dogs in a bag of 30 soft chews. The ingredients include melatonin, chamomile, passion flower, L-theanine, ashwagandha, valerian root, and tryptophan. The chews are designed to support relaxation as part of a bedtime routine.


HolistaPet Sleep Aid (melatonin) soft chews for dogs, showing the dog treat.


Ask your vet before adding the Sleep Aid soft chews, and tell them about every medicine and supplement your dog receives. VCA advises caution with melatonin in dogs that are pregnant, nursing, or used for breeding. It also advises caution in dogs with severe liver disease and young dogs that are not yet mature. Melatonin can interact with several medicines.


Tryptophan also needs consideration. VCA lists it among substances that can contribute to serotonin syndrome when combined with drugs such as trazodone, fluoxetine, and selegiline. Check with your vet first if your dog takes any of them.


Your next step tonight: follow the evening timeline above and write down when your dog wakes and what it does. If restless nights continue, take those notes to your vet.



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